Monday afternoon it got up over 65°. As you can see in the photo the snow was mostly melted. What a difference from a week before!
With the nicer weather I dug out a different collection of toys, including the dinosaur egg. We got out on the leash in the neighborhood, at least to go around a block on three or four of the days.
I worked out with the trainer both Tuesday and Thursday mornings, while Ember played with her friends in day care. On Tuesday as I was heading in, I encountered my brother-in-law, taking their Benji in for his grooming. "Don't tell your sister, it's a surprise," he said.
My son called me in his afterwork time on Tuesday to confirm that the VA had fired some 1400 "conditional workers". He is in a category where the "conditional" is two years, and he's only been there one. His last performance review was excellent. He does not know if he's fired or not. He has not been notified if he is. He's not quitting, that would be abandoning a mission, and his work there is a mission to him, serving other veterans. Veterans who continue to work as civil servants (my son among them) are true patriots. They view their work similarly to their military missions.
My son serves homeless veterans. He serves those who have mental health issues. He is provisionally licensed for three different categories of mental health care. He served two deployments overseas in this role, leading up to his continuing his education when he came home. His skill set is in high demand in both public and private sectors. If he should be fired, I am certain that he will land "on his feet". "I'll let you know if I get fired," he quipped.
However, I have lived through downsizings in the corporate world myself, in all three roles: as someone who got a heavier workload because of the exodus of others; as someone who opted to exit herself; and as someone who had to assist in the decision of who got "let go". None of these roles is fun. So please everyone, be kind to civil servants you encounter during this difficult time.
Sunset is getting later, day by day, and the increasing sunlight time is encouraging. Photo is shot toward the west, Thursday during Ember's "last call". As the hours of daylight increase, Ember is sleeping fewer "nap" hours, and I am letting her stay up later especially on day care days, so she has time to settle before she goes to bed.We are trying out yak cheese chews. Ember had not had this treat before. They last a long time.
I managed the no-buy day on Friday. I'm not sure how much good my personal participation will do, but I am honoring the "picket line" if you get the reference. Depending on how widespread the observance is, it could make a difference.
Across town, in the land of foster care, there's a court date coming up on Monday the third of March. In anticipation of this there was a home visit from the HHS worker and another foster care vendor who are working on the case. Son and daughter-in-law were able to brag on their foster kiddo, as he showed off his skills with counting and dice playing PokΓ©mon. They also mentioned to the visitors that he can read good portions of the bedtime books to them. Doesn't matter to me whether he's memorized them or whether he really does recognize the words on the page, it shows a level of literacy. I'm proud of the good these young people are doing for this child.
We will see what the judge says on Monday. But hopefully they will leave him with them for a while, as they continue to work with birth dad. We are talking several months. Which would be awesome, to not have things hanging over their heads every week or two. Fingers crossed!
Son and DIL bought the kiddo a bicycle, and they tried it out on Saturday. No training wheels, the six-year-old pedaled on down the block with parents (and Carl) following along.
Couch puppy is still working on one of her "super chewer" toys from Bark. Some of them she likes, some of them she gives up on, some of them she totally destroys. This one she's been working on for a week, and has it partially opened. This one has a hard rubber toy inside of the burlap stitched cover.
In short, it's been a "later, rinse, repeat" kind of a week. Grateful for the return of milder weather, hoping that March brings more of the same!
Life is good. Spark on!
Wow, what a week! It sounds like you've had a mix of wonderful moments (sunny walks, happy playtime, and your foster grandchild's progress) and some stressful ones (your son's job uncertainty). I'm glad you're finding encouragement in the longer days and that Ember is enjoying her new treats. Sending good vibes for your son and the foster care situation!
ReplyDeleteHave a wonderful weekend! (((BIG HUGS)))
I am finding with Ember napping a little less, I'm also blogging less!
DeleteI can see that, I am easing back a bit on blogging too, I will post hubby's when he gets back to them and myself, once a week but I think that is going to work best for me too. Ember is growing up too so naps will be less and less I am guessing. At least with the better weather coming there will be more outside time I am sure. We have watched the 60 minutes on the closing of departments and I think of all the support people who worked 20 years or more suddenly fired - do they get their pensions? Some kind of pay? Your son is so very much needed for those that are struggling, I pray he can keep doing what he is doing. I am sure he will be able to land on his feet but how awful that uncertainty and hopefully the foster child will be able to be settled for a time too. Huge hugs.
ReplyDeleteThe uncertainty of it all is tough... I have been avoiding the news, but it dribbles in even when one does! Thankfully, the puppy insists that I stay present in the moment with her! And I cannot resist that!
DeleteYour blog title reminded me of a show that was in . . . in the 60’s . . . That Was the Week That Was. Stars like Henry Morgan, Phyllis Newman, Pat Englund, Buck Henry, Alan Alda, Tom Bosley. I was young, but it was a good show.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was a nicer day yesterday and got Miss Lilly out too, So windy, so not a long walk. Glad you were able to get on a walk.
HOPE Ember is enjoying her day care! Good you were able to work out w/the trainer.
And how lovely you ran into your BIL and Benji. Hope Benji liked his grooming!
LORD HAVE MERCY. This is a ridiculously ridiculous world. People w/excellent reviews being fired just because. I Sure HOPE that he is NOT among those fired, but surely admire his being adamant about not quitting. Prayers. I am so ashamed of all this nonsense. That is not what this country is about, what this country is based on. And to treat veterans that way. Better be quiet now.
Loving the longer days for sure!
You know, it’s all the collective individual efforts on No Buy Friday that will hopefully make a difference, and hopefully people will continue the trend and begin to speak out. Reminds me of the Boston Tea Party. Individually, maybe not effective, but collectively . . . it worked.
Good for your foster grandson! Even memorization leads to recognition, which is all a part of reading skills development. KUDOS!
That would be a godsend if he remains w/DS and DIL for a few months. That child will have a sense of stability built!
What!!!!!!!! That’s awesome the boy was able to ride the bike w/o even having training wheels! WTG.
Sometimes lather, rinse, repeat weeks are not so bad. Heading for that this week!
Hugs and prayers, and special prayers for DS and his job. HE IS SO NEEDED!
Barb
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Our little fur-kids give us bright spots no matter how the world spins, don't they? Ember and I got out to walk in the sunshine Sunday afternoon, too.
DeleteAs I drove to the PO at midday on Friday, I noticed the parking lot at Walmart looked like early morning. There were a many open spots to park. Usually at lunch time, the lot is full. The insane are running the asylum. So many folks are affected.
ReplyDeleteHere's hoping that sanity prevails in the decisions made for the grand. How sad there is so much concern of the time before birth and virtually none after. Suffer the little children...
Wishing you a week filled with blessings for all. ππΌπ€π
Amen to what you said about care for the children. And of course none of us WANT to believe that a parent would or could treat their child badly, so it's hard for a kid to get adults around them to believe what they report.
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ReplyDeleteYou wrote: "However, I have lived through downsizings in the corporate world myself, in all three roles: as someone who got a heavier workload because of the exodus of others; as someone who opted to exit herself; and as someone who had to assist in the decision of who got "let go". None of these roles is fun."
Been there, done that at same employer where I was 3 years short of full-retirement benefits and earlier at a State job where I needed 6 more months to qualify for lifetime retirement. Lo-o-o-ong stretches of extreme stress before actual exits, knowing that the shoe is going to drop, just not when.
This past Monday, surgical biopsy results for a new, different type, tumor came back negative, yea! Follow-up this coming Thursday and set schedule for next round of treatments.
Enjoying my sharper vision post cataracts removal. Got my new lenses Saturday of last week -- they are much thinner and much lighter which my nose appreciates.
Childhood friend of mine served similar folks in Houston TX at VA Hospitalj (most Vietnam veterans). When he retired and moved to an Eastern state, he was there briefly before recruiters were contacting him so he set up a private practice and limits the number of folks he works with.
Have a great week!
Susan
So glad to hear of your good outcomes on the medical front! And I know just what you mean about those long stretches of stress when you know it's coming, but it has yet to arrive. Many of us "boomers" have been through the cycles!
DeleteI've been in "lather, rinse, repeat" myself. Nothing new and life is moving on.
ReplyDeleteGuess we should move along with it, eh?
DeleteFingers crossed for your son - but, as mine likes to bemoan, “Nothing about this Brave New World makes sense!” [sic]
ReplyDeleteAll I can do is support him & advise him to concentrate on the things which are within our control…
Val
Yeah, and the Brave New World is what our generation made it to hand over to our sons and daughters. "Do the next right thing" still works as generic advice, I guess.
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