Friday, February 20, 2026

Finally got to a Youth Basketball Game

 In this case, one in which my foster grandson was playing.  "The Kids" are on an annual retreat that DIL's family does to a nearby state park cabin, and they are having a ball.  But Sunday was the last game of the season for FGC, so my son drove him back into town for it.

I had already taken Ember on a long leash walk, one where I let her nose direct us.  So there were a lot of reversals of direction and doubling back, and in the end, it was 1.88 miles.  This made her more amenable to going into her crate for a "puppy nap #2" that coincided with time for the ball game.

The game itself was hilarious!  This is YMCA ball, and the coaches are also the referees, which is kind of ridiculous, since they don't call fouls, traveling, double dribbles, or travelling.  When something goes awry, the coaches stop the game long enough to give the kids additional instruction about "we don't steal the ball in this league", "remember to dribble", etc.  FGC's best buddy is on his team.  Best bud picked up the ball at one point, tucked it under his arm and ran for the endzone.  Did we confuse football and basketball, kiddos?  I was cracking up!  I dub thee "Rugby Basketball", this game played by first graders with very lax rules.

Anyway, I think it ended with a score of 2 - 1, FGC's team on the losing end.  BUT, in the process, the one basket they DID get, was the result of a decent job of teamwork on the part of FGC, his buddy, and the best shooter on the team (I think that one's name is Nathan).  I told FGC that I was really proud of their teamwork on that play.  They are indeed learning!

Monday we had another warm weather day.  We've got a couple more days of highs 20-30 degrees above average before Winter rears her head again.  They are saying we might get snow Thursday or Friday, after having seen 70 plus on Tuesday!  Seems to happen every Winter that we get a week of unseasonably warm weather, but this one has lingered, and believe me, I've enjoyed it thoroughly, as has Ember!

Tuesday morning Ember was happy to go to her day care.  My kid sis Alicia came over, having taken a vacation day from her work to observe the confluence of holidays!  Chinese New Year, Ramadan, Mardi Gras all land on the same day this year.

I finished up dog laundry, and straightened the couch covers after Alicia left, then went to pick up the cat's pesticide prescription.

On the way home, I found that the local/regional grocery had put Paczki's in the "sale" cart up front.  

Kid sis sent me a link to a TikTok that explains the origins (at least in the US Midwest) of the Polish jelly donut made specially for Mardi Gras, to use up all the goodies before Ash Wednesday begins the Christian Lenten season.  In this video I learned that this word is pronounced "poonch-key". So much for my phonetic "pahksy".  Being near a Czech community I was more familiar with kolaches (had to learn that pronunciation, too).  

Then I settled in for the human "think" work of the day, filing my taxes.  This is a Presidents' Day tradition for me.  I need to know by this date (after I've got all the forms from various places) whether I get something back or have to pay in.  This year I had to pay in, which is not surprising, because I'm not in the highest income groups that had their tax cuts "extended for life", I'm in the group that had theirs expire.  

Wednesday morning, I woke with the after-effects of those Paczki's.  Yuck.  This is why we only do this once a year, right?  But there are so many holidays that we do "once a year".  I hydrated, caffeinated, and had a protein rich breakfast, and started to feel much, much better.

Ember and The Prisoner's ballet that I call "safe passage"

1.  The Prisoner requests entry to the house.  He had gone outside at breakfast time for him.


2. Ember is asked to Kennel Up.  She gets a treat (labs are soooo food motivated).

3-4. Hu-mom opens the door and escorts The Prisoner to his safe haven in the laundry room.  He's on alert the whole time.





5.  Ember is allowed to "break" from her Kennel.  She then trots down the stairs to make sure The Prisoner is safely tucked away.  Both animals are proud of their participation in the ritual.

A brief while later, Ember went down for puppy nap #1, and Mommy got to "go do human things" for a bit.  

Ember had a fine Wednesday.  She got a nice long leash walk on the last mild weather day for a while.  She got two car rides.  We drove to the Humane Society's adoption center, where I dropped off some of her old "gently used" toys that she no longer shows interest in.  Then we took recycles to the bins by the high school.  She got a yak cheese puff as an extra treat Wednesday, too.

Thursday, I asked that the vet take a look at Ember's lower belly where she has been licking at a couple of spots, and at her ears, as we've had some head shaking.  

I got the consult call from the vet as I was leaving my workout.  Yeast infection in the ears, they will treat.  The two spots on her belly, I'm to treat with neosporin.  Apoquel for a brief course for her general itchiness, then continue with just the Zyrtek.

The Resumption of Winter:

The anticipated snow started about 3:15 p.m. on Thursday.  I went and got Ember, and even in the short time I went inside to consult about her supplements, the car got covered in the snow.  The crews had not got out to clear streets yet, of course, since it had only just begun, but we crept home without incident and started Ember on her "new" (had it before though) meds.  

The deck after day care, while it was still coming down.  This picture was snapped about 5:15 p.m. Thursday. The snow seemed to have ended by "last call" about 8 p.m.

On Tuesday, the forecast said we were in the "trace to an inch" band.  Wednesday, they saw the track moving Southward and told us 1 to 3 inches.  Thursday morning, they said we were on the line between 1 to 3 and 3 to 6 inch bands.

By 8 p.m. the middle of that deck measured 6 inches.  There was more by morning, but Ember objected to my ruler, so I did not measure.  Let's just say it was a bit over 6 inches at my house.

The front steps before sunrise Friday.  I looked at this and thought it didn't look "too bad".  I mean it was obviously light and fluffy, right?

Labrador footprints.  I had to toss one of her balls out there to get her to go out in the pre-dawn to take care of business.

Still looks "light and fluffy" to me.


Ready to come back in, Ma!  Ember was good about going out after the first trip.

I shoveled just enough path to put the garbage to the curb.  It was indeed white and fluffy on the top, but underneath was slushy ice!

Fast forward.  The garbage men came and took away the trash.  I shoveled two more sessions.  After I called it quits, I have about half a driveway lane, and the sidewalks cleared and ice melt applied.

The ice on the porch is too thick.  Just ice melt applied, so far!





Given how slick it is on the streets, guess who will be buttoned up and staying home Friday, at least?  School is closed.  Son reported having to navigate around cars in odd places (middle of the roundabout, in the ditch) on his way home to his own house after work Thursday night. The major streets were at a standstill. Good choice for me to stay home Friday!

I was very proud of Ember Friday morning.  She was "loose" in the house while I shoveled, and she did not "invent" chewing games.  My furniture, carpets, and walls were intact when I came in.  Some folks may take this for granted when they step outside to do chores.  After the first year I lived through with Ember, I do not assume good behavior in this regard, and I'm overly pleased when she does "the right thing", patiently waiting for her mommy.  

I rewarded her by letting her play "pull mommy's glove out of her pocket".  Then "give it back to mommy's hand" and a treat.  She has always had a focus on my gloves and hats... I figure use it as a reward, play into it, and it helps train her for things I really WANT her to do!

Five days of Winter weather ahead before we get the next hint of Spring!

Life in Emberville is indeed good!  Keep on Sparking, my friends!

16 comments:

  1. Being retired during icky weather is such a wonderful thing; I believe I'll never tire of it. We didn't have any snow beyond a few little flakes a day or so ago. But our surrounding mountains have gotten many inches at their various elevations. Our wind is icy cold coming off the mountains in winter. We got three days of rain and wind. It's warmer today; lows in the mid 30s and highs in the mid 40s.

    Thank goodness tomorrow has no rain predicted because we're going 'down the hill' for a banging Toby Mac concert. :D We sit at about 3500 feet elevation, surrounded by mountains which go about 6,000. Going down the Cajon Pass when there could be fog or ice patches is not a good look.

    Happy Friday.

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    1. Agreed! Retirement is an awesome time of life for so many reasons, not the least of which is flexibility to adjust to weather, health, changing family conditions, etc.

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  2. Glad you were able to get to FGC’s game. And so wonderful that DS drove back from their retreat so he could play!

    We have already had the return of winter. Oh well, no surprise! But at least the winter days are coming to an end! EVENTUALLY! LOL

    Glad you had a visit w/your sis. Yes, Tuesday was a day of many celebrations. Had paczki treat on Tuesday. So good. Ours were cream filled, and enjoyed the once a year treat.

    Oh yes, have my tax file going and getting ready for putting the information all together. Brain work, indeed. Yeah, same here w/paying. Oh well, I’m happy being a “regular person” and pay my dues!

    What a sweet ritual Prison and Ember have. LOL They have animal respect for each other.

    Miss Lilly has the SAME yeast thing going on in her poor ears. Finally clearing up and she’s on Apoquel @ night and Zyrtec morning and night. It’s helping. Hope it helps Ember.

    Wow! You had lots of snow. We had snow overnight, but just a coating. And more tonight. We’ll see how much we end up with.

    Love the Lab footprints in the snow.

    Stay warm and safe in the winter weather!

    hugs
    barb
    1cd

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    1. Poor Miss Lilly! One thing I am glad of, as she matures, Ember lets me do what I need to do to "tend" her issues! Daubing neosporin on the nether reaches, and I'm even getting her to tolerate me brushing her. She of course LOVES the pills because I wrap them in peanut butter. As for keeping her dry for any length of time... wish me luck!

      - Barb OKM

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  3. PHOENIX1949

    The deck picture on Thursday is very pretty. Is that a fir tree of some type? Our temp that day was 85F.

    Medicalizing seems to monopolize my calendar. Still on cancer roller coaster ride. The end of next month, on my 77th birthday, I will have results of additional tests and treatments + internal scan to learn of next step(s).

    Our taxes done on Turbo Tax the past weekend. Somehow I was expecting much bigger deductions for seniors being touted in Yahoo News articles that weren't exactly clear that these went into affect in 2026 for the 2027 return.

    What a fun 'basketball' game !!

    After being downsized by my employer, I took the education portion of the buyout (use it or lose it) and went back to school to complete a BS in Education, first class taken summer 1967, graduation Dec 1999 (did collect 2 Associate Degrees along the way). For one of my special-education courses, a group of 4 classmates, including me, were assigned to observe + assist a wheelchair basketball game in a local college gym on a Saturday. The game got wild and the person I was nearest to flipped over and started screaming for help. I rushed to his side and he laughed uproariously at my being so naive to think he was injured. Righted his chair and continued the game.

    Seems you and your pets have worked things out well for all 3 of you !! Boundaries are important.

    The 5-years we had Bailey (RIP, Nov 2023, age 15), we had to police mealtime because she wanted what KC (now 12-1/2, with us since age 3) had in his dish which is exactly what was in her dish. Dog toys all over the house and the only one she was interested in was the one KC was playing with. She would play Queen of the Mountain to his King of the Mountain for the corner bed position facing the 2 front windows to bark at the walkers. At bedtime she would try to co-op his place on the bed. It took a while for me to realize she was a covert, passive-aggressive female disguised as sweet, quiet and docile. I owed KC a BIG apology for sternly saying NO to him so many times before I figured out her being the instigator of their disagreements.

    Prayers sent up daily for our USA and all of its citizens. I've been listening to a lot of albums on YouTube for 70's folk songs which calm my mind, sometimes.

    I follow your blog but don't comment much.

    Susan (Central Texas)

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    1. Good to see you, Susan! I always enjoy your comments and updates on how life is going to you. I have several folks on the edges of my life who either live in Texas, came from Texas, in one case moved BACK to Texas, etc. One of my online friends, met through my brother is recently relocated to Texas after retirement.

      Have to laugh at the sense of humor of the wheelchair athletes!

      The tree in the photo belongs to my neighbor. There was a similar one there years ago, and he replaced it with a "twig" sized probably 15 years ago, and now it's as big as its predecessor. The Prisoner "lives" in that tree, whenever Carl comes to visit. I'm not sure just what type of tree it is, I don't think it's a spruce (had one of those many years ago myself), and I know it's not a pine or a juniper. But it is an evergreen, possibly fir?

      Pets and their relationships give us a lot of entertainment! May your life contain enough joy and laughter to make the roller coaster just that... a ride... through life.

      - Barb OKM

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    2. I failed to comment these players were from local middle schools.
      Susan

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    3. Middle school students have that "prank you" sense of humor, with or without wheel chairs, huh?

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  4. We had a combo of freezing rain and snow up here. Although as I blog-mentioned it waited until we had done our Wednesday outing. Like you when the outside gets that way we stay in too. One of the points of being retired which I stick to. I like to stay out of the way of those who are not retired and have to be out there. Ember is doing so good, what a big girl she is and sounds like a blast watching the game of your FGC. That would have been fun to watch. Have a wonderful week ahead.

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    1. The luxury of choice, right? I'm with you, staying out of the way of those who do not have that choice.

      I'm staying home today, too, as I got out just enough to notice what icy ruts the side streets have become. "The kids" had a family outing planned to the Husker men's basketball game, but between not wanting to leave Ember crated for five hours and that... chose to wimp out.

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  5. Staying safe in this icy weather is a good thing for all of us. You had a fun week! Yay Ember for not chewing. I get to watch DH use the snow blower and shovels while I make hot chocolate. First snow I've missed.

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    1. Good job following the recovery plan, Janet! This turned out to be the biggest snow in a couple of years. And only six inches. Can we spell "we've been in a drought?" And being past mid-February, we know it can't last terribly long. We had sunshine and calm winds today, so even though it wasn't all that warm, it feels like we're making progress.

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    2. I forgot to mention your BB game. I love the rules. It should be fun and not so competitive in the early years. Best to learn the game minus anxiety and pressure. My GD is playing Field Hockey. The first 6 months were just play and practice.

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    3. Totally agree about keeping the game FUN being the most important rule at that age. Don't want to sour them on it!

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  6. What a wonderful, busy week! I loved the image of "Rugby Basketball"—first-grade sports are such a comedy of errors, but that teamwork for the lone basket is a real win. It sounds like FGC and his buddy are learning the best part of the game.

    Ember’s "Safe Passage" ritual with The Prisoner is absolutely precious. It’s a testament to your training that she’s becoming such a trustworthy companion, especially staying so well-behaved while you were out shoveling that heavy slush.

    I hope the paczki hangover has fully cleared and that Ember’s ears feel better soon. Enjoy the cozy "buttoned-up" time inside while the winter weather passes—it sounds like you’ve both earned a peaceful break! (((BIG HUGS)))

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    1. We did make Saturday a peaceful "at home" day, skipping a college basketball game in favor of having Olympics on the tube and pampering the pooch.

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