Happy 4th of July
It may be Independence Day here, but it's July 4th all over! I can wish the whole world a happy 4th of July!
Ember and I went walking early on the 3rd, and the neighborhood fireworks fanatics were already starting up. She did not seem to be bothered by them, most of them were "in the distance". The booms and pops continued throughout the day. A few of them were loud enough or close enough to merit a head whip, but the recovery time was short. My scared puppy has become a confident adult.
We had a big storm blow through Friday evening the 3rd. This was when the big community fireworks display was scheduled, with the "Uncle Sam Jam" festivities located in our minor league baseball venue. They ended up cancelling it because of the lightning danger, but intended to go ahead and set off the fireworks at 10 p.m. I'm assuming they did, as I heard big booms and woke briefly between ten and midnight, but I had already gone to bed, since it was pouring rain and rumbling thunder at 8 p.m. when I would normally be taking Ember outside for "last call."
In any case, I woke to the rain on the roof and found a wet deck with a kitty sitting on the rail. He had done a vanish on me, outside, while the booms were going off early in the evening. I was glad to have the kitty ready to come inside as it was time for his every couple of months flea and tick medication.
The forecast did not predict rain until noon, but it was actively raining in the 7 a.m. hour, so we went to the coffee drive-thru, instead of on a walk.
It finally quit dripping about 11 a.m., and Ember and I set out to review the neighborhood. There were pops and bangs going off, but they did not seem to bother her much. We got home around noon and had a quiet afternoon. I left her outside the crate while I went upstairs to take a shower, and she handled it well. When I came downstairs all freshened up, she was laying on the cool tile at the foot of the stairs.
I put the fruit for the party together, and after Ember's supper at 4 p.m., I headed over to "the kids". The birdie that I wrote about before, that had gone to the vet last week, unfortunately passed away on Thursday. Blessedly, in his final hour, he was being held by my daughter in law. This sweet bird (Scout, named after the character in To Kill a Mockingbird) had been in her care for 21 years, half her lifetime! FGC was quite heart-broken and the whole family had to adjust to this loss.
They decided they to have a funeral pyre for the little guy. In a cardboard box on which we all wrote messages and prayers and wishes, his body was burnt in the chiminea. We all shared memories. FGC couldn't watch it all and went to help set up fireworks watching chairs on the front side of the house.His ashes will be spread on the garden, but a small amount added to the bird cremains urn the family has collected over the years.
The party moved to the front of the house, where a few daylight fireworks were set off before the grill was fired up. The fruit I brought, burgers, hot dogs, chips and buns comprised the holiday meal. Dessert came in the form of cake pops, baked by DIL's mom. She is such a great baker, desserts being her specialty. These were moist and flavorful. Banana flavored as requested by FGC, and vanilla for those who were not banana flavor fans.
Then it was back to the fireworks. Carl, their dog, was on his calming meds. The remaining cockatiel, Kiwi, was not only grieving the loss of his roommate, but also bothered by the booms and pops and smoky air. DIL took him to his room and covered his cage to help him calm down.
There were smoke ones. Seemed like some inventive marketer rebranded a gender reveal firework pack for July 4th. In the two pack, one was pink, the other blue.
The Millenium Falcon put in an appearance, shooting sparks.Then dissolving into sparking pops!
About the time several "screech owl" style fireworks went off; I decided I'd best get home to Ember.
It wasn't yet full dark when I navigated through the five parties on the streets that intersect where my house sits. Ember was quite happy to be let out of her crate, but not happy with what was going on outside.
Ember decided she would remain "on alert". She did not want to return to the crate for the night, so we just chilled on the couch, watching out the window.
Ember stood guard while I went upstairs and got ready for bedtime. About 10 p.m. I gave up and sacked out on the couch while she stayed on alert.
She woke me with a cold nose on the back of my knee about midnight. The bangs and pops were dying down, and she was ready to take a crate entry bribe.
Sunday, July 5th
I awoke feeling every day of my over seventy years. Fed the cat, greeting Ember, and took her out in the backyard. Doesn't seem like any of the debris from the night's activities made their way into my yard. Ember took care of business, and a little while (and a mug of coffee) later we went out on leash to survey the neighborhood.
What a difference two years makes in the lifetime of a puppy! I well remember the first time I took her for a walk after a fireworks night, when she was about 5 months old. She wanted to eat everything (or at least mouth it, discover it). This year? Most of the time, a quick sniff meant "move on". Toward the end of the walk, where the debris field hadn't been stacked up yet, she was more curious. We made it through our rounds and through the coffee drive-thru for our mommy-and-me day ritual.
In short, Life is Good. Spark on!










So sorry to hear about passing of Scout. Hugs and healing. so glad that your DIL got to hold him, though, as he transitioned. I am sure that was comforting for both.
ReplyDeleteCake pops . . . so fun to make AND eat! Nice menu.
Well, glad you and Ember found a way to survive the cacophony of the fireworks. Miss Lilly was plastered against us, but did not seem bothered as long as we were right there.
Onto the 5th, and probably more fireworks in the neighborhood.
hugs and blessings
barb
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There were a few leftover crackles and pops this morning on our walk. I hope there are not a whole lot tonight. For you or for us.
DeleteIt’s so incredible to see how far Ember has come. Remembering her at five months old compared to the confident adult she is now, just sniffing and moving on, is the best feeling. She did such a good job holding down the fort and keeping watch while the neighborhood went crazy with the fireworks, and I'm glad she finally let you know when it was safe to get some real rest.
ReplyDeleteI was so sorry to hear about Scout, though. Losing a pet that’s been part of the family for twenty-one years is absolutely heartbreaking, but the funeral pyre and writing notes on the box sounds like a beautiful way to honor his long life. It’s comforting to know he was being held and loved by your daughter-in-law at the very end.
Even with the rain, the grief, and feeling every bit of those seventy-some years the next morning, it sounds like a really full, meaningful holiday. Between the banana cake pops, the Millenium Falcon fireworks, and getting your kitty back safe and sound before his meds, you guys really weathered the storm together. Enjoy that coffee drive-thru ritual today—you both definitely earned it. (((BIG HUGS)))
Thanks for the kind words... you are so right about long-time family pets. It doesn't matter whether it's a goldfish or a horse, or anything in between, it's the fact that they are indeed a part of the family.
DeleteOnward to mid-Summer, eh?
(((BIG HUGS)))
Such a busy time and Ember did so very well protecting the home and letting you know it was time to go to bed. ;) The weather seemed to be the same there as here for our celebrations. So sorry to hear about Scout but that was a lovely funeral for him. Wishing you a good week ahead.
ReplyDeleteI have to admit I both the routine and the variety of weather, giving texture to holidays. We remember the big ones, the snowy Christmasses, the beastly hot Independence days, and of course the wind, rain and lightning storms. Through them all, time, and life, goes on!
DeleteWishing you a fine week ahead, too!
Such a long time with Scout. Birds have personalities. I was raised alongside Java finches and a long line of blue or green parakeets named "Chipper", each trained to do tricks and talk.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad Ember and the Prisoner survived the fireworks. I watched nature's fireworks from DH's hospital room and the Macy's on TV.
Hopefully they are getting your DH's situation all sorted out and he'll be home soon (if he isn't already). "Nature's fireworks", yep, and the advantage of the TV version: no smoky air! It was poor visibility driving home from the kids', and in the morning "poor air quality".
DeleteMay the week after be gentle to all!