Wednesday, October 15, 2025
Today I am thankful for routine. The workday routine that I lived for decades, and the retirement routines that I have established with my furry companions. Routine is something to hang on to during unsettled times. For me, routines have regularly changed and adapted with the changes to school, jobs, homes (apartment or house), and household composition as marriage, births, and yes, even passings occurred.
Routines and rituals keep us grounded. And sometimes they involve "looking up", figuratively or literally.Getting the pup outside in the dark of pre-dawn, and for her last call after sunset gives me the chance to do a little star or moon gazing as the dark months of the year are creeping upon us here.
The moon and the stars, the wonders of the heavens bring a Psalm to mind: "What is man, that Thou art mindful of him?" I am grateful to be able to see these wonders and for the sense of awe that they inspire.
I am grateful that your routine includes these annual gratitude posts.
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“Be mindful. Be grateful. Be positive. Be true. Be kind.” ~ Roy T. Bennett
Some years I dragged my feet about starting but I'm always glad when I have started. Gratitude multiplies as we exercise it.
DeleteYes, reading yours is inspiring mine and my list to write about grows each time. I love my routines in life.
ReplyDeleteI completely understand. My list keeps growing too.
DeleteI am a creature of habit. I've read that routines and habits instill a sense of security in kids. I would bet your son and DIL are creatures of habit as well - and are doing all they can to provide habits, routines and stability for FGK. SO grateful for people who make a difference in others' lives. You, your son and DIL. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteOh, yes, to DS and DIL providing as much routine and reward for performance as possible for FGK. A kid who has been through the trauma (getting removed from their home/caregivers is traumatic, even without an inciting cause and you know they don't remove a kid without cause!) needs stability and predictability, and the reassurance that his/her needs will be met.
DeleteYou wish you didn't have to re-emphasize things like "we will always feed you", or "you will not be left alone in the night"... but in many cases with these kids, that's exactly what's needed. Security!
Totally agree w/you re: routine. It is comforting in these times, for sure.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely enjoy seeing sunrises and the moon, too. Beautiful sites.
Here’s to a good Wednesday.
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Glad to read of your continuing progress with being able to get steps in the house, and Jason's needs being met, too. So many things to be thankful for!
DeleteHave a great mid-week!