Thursday, November 20, 2025

Season of Thanksgiving gratitude Day 39


 Thursday November 20, 2025

This is another classically easy day of gratitude.  In fact, Alicia (Mamie Allie, not my sister) used this one for the 19th.  I am thankful to be alive, breathing, above ground, etc.  Why is that natural for me on November 20th?  Because of course it's the anniversary of my birth.

I remember mom telling me that I was born at something weird like 5 a.m., which might explain why I'm a morning person... or not!

Mom always used to say that we kept on living while we had something more to learn, or something more to give.  Sounds like a good reason to hang out... learning, and sharing!

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Season of Thanksgiving Gratitude: Day 38

 Wednesday November 19, 2025

Today I am thankful for alternative sources of information.  The world is changing.  What used to be trustworthy sources of news and facts are no longer guaranteed to be such.  Things are chosen to be presented, only part of a story is told, or in some cases outright lies.

I have listened to actual words spoken, then to the talking heads interpreting what was said, drawing conclusions about what it meant when alternative interpretations are available.  It makes my head spin.  Sometimes these presentations are examples of "this is what I hope/wish it means", and sometimes they are "this is what I most fear it means".

Either way, consumption of news is no longer a simple thing.  Large grains of salt are required.

I am thankful that I am not "on the front lines", so to speak, and can sit between my two furry companions, in a house with heat, with hot water, with refrigeration and cooking means for food, with stocked shelves in a nearby grocery and the ability to purchase it.  

I worry when I sit amid this bounty that my gratitude may slop over into the Pharisee's prayer from the gospels, where the self-righteous one is thankful he is not "as other men".  It's tempting to believe we are deserving of all the good in our lives.  

I am indeed blessed, but with blessing comes responsibility, to do what we can to help others.  "Noblesse oblige" in a society of supposed equals applies to us all.




Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Season of Thanksgiving Gratitude: Day 37

 

Tuesday November 18th, 2025

Today I am thankful for my Ember's quiet approach to squirrel chasing.  She eyes them.  If they are on my fence I can tell her to "go get him" or "tell him to get off my fence" and she'll rush at the critter... but she doesn't bark at them!

I'm also grateful for her not being obsessed with them when we're out on leash!  We're pretty good at stopping and watching, as opposed to lunging or barking.


Decision time, I might be seeing one!

Monday, November 17, 2025

Week 6 of the season of gratitude - day 36

 

Monday November 17th, 2025

Observation:  I don't usually catch Ember in one of her breed characteristics: sleeping positions that look like a contortionist designed them.  She changes out of them and turns into a normal curled up pup as soon as I get the camera out.  But they make me laugh and puzzle me... how could anyone nod off all twisted around like that?

A nod to my mother, who was born on November 17th.  She's been gone for 29 years by now, but we always celebrated our birthdays together (mine is later in the week).

Today I am thankful for a good night's sleep and a warm shower in the morning.  Ahhh!  Great way to start a day... add coffee and we're complete!



Sunday, November 16, 2025

Thanksgiving Season of Gratitude: Day 35

 Sunday November 16, 2025

Today I am thankful for the smooth transition of cell service providers.  Since my son provides me with my mobile phone service, he's the decider, and today was the day to change out to a less costly one.  He messaged me with instructions for what I had to do on my end, and... it worked!

Don't you love it when technology works to plan?  He paid for a year on this new service at a "black Friday sale" price, and the old service that amount of payment would only have covered two months.  Pricing of so many things is outrageously variable!  I'm grateful that my son keeps an eye on these things so I don't have to!


Saturday, November 15, 2025

Season of Gratitude: Day 34

 

Saturday November 15, 2025

Today I am thankful for crate training!  The peace of mind this gives me to take a shower or dash out on a grocery run is priceless.  

I pretty much am at the point where I accept Ember's choice of "it's time for my nap", tuck her in, and go "do human things" for a couple of hours.  

But I also can ask her to "kennel up" so that the kitty can have safe passage, or a service technician can come into the house.

It's not always a given, but this is her den to sleep for the night, too, and I have my whole bed to myself.  I second guess this one at times, because when Carl comes to visit, he sleeps on the big bed with me (and often displaces me).  I don't know if Ember will ever get to that privileged level, but you never know.  

She does now take up the whole couch for naps during the daytime.  Sometimes she just curls up in a corner, and I take up the rest of the couch for a nap of my own.



Friday, November 14, 2025

Season of Thanksgiving gratitude: Day 33


Friday, November 14, 2025

Today I am thankful for the night sky.  While I did not get the vibrant colors captured, I did learn a thing or two about my phone's camera settings and got some interesting night shots.  My daughter in law got some pretty vibrant photos on Tuesday evening.  This one is from Thursday night at Ember's "last call" time, shortly after sunset.

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Thanksgiving Season of Gratitude: Day 32

 

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Today I am thankful for a sense of humor and the whimsey that marketers put into the delivery of entertainment with our coffee choices.  Buddy the Elf cups of coffee, and this time of year their special flavor is maple.  Turned out to be "too sweet" for me, so what's in that cup is hot mocha with a squirt of cherry syrup, making for my "chocolate covered cherry" festive cup!


Wednesday, November 12, 2025

Thanksgiving season of gratitude Day 31

 

Wednesday November 12, 2025

Today I am thankful for the Nebraska Animal Medical Center.  They combine veterinary services with grooming, and day care and boarding, as well as selling pet supplies.  Kind of like a one-stop shop.  Oh, and they are open for emergency vet service on weekends.

I am thankful that Ember loves everyone there, and on Tuesday she came home so totally chill, freshly groomed by Tony.  He has been her groomer the whole time she's been with me.

She looked so happy, I had to take the mug shot!

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

Thanksgiving season of gratitude: Day 30

 

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

This is Veterans' Day, the classic day to show our appreciation for and gratitude to those who have worn the uniform of the armed services of the USA and served in our defense.

My older sister posted photos of our paternal grandfather in his WWI uniform on the 10th, in honor of his birthday.  I found it interesting that he was in Europe as a Prisoner of War and Armistice Day came the day after his birthday.  Funny how family stories make history come alive for a kid.

The photo is unrelated, just the chili mac I put together on Monday.  Monday was the coldest day of the week, and it put me in a mood to bake a hot casserole.  

Monday, November 10, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 29 gratitude: start of week 5

 Monday, November 10, 2025


"Mom, there is ice in my outside water bowl!  I like ice."

Today I am thankful for a place to shelter inside.  I know The Prisoner and Ember are also thankful to have a warm refuge when the first snowflakes dance in the air, as they did on Sunday morning.  The temperatures outside are stronger this morning, and the wind is making the "feels like" temperature even colder.

Having a place to "hunker down" is certainly worthy of gratitude.

Sunday, November 9, 2025

Thanksgiving season Day 28 gratitude

Sunday November 9, 2025

Today I am thankful that the government shut down does not stop people from caring and helping one another!

I am blessed in having "enough".  I'm not a rolling in dough rich person, mind you, but even though prices are freaking me out a shade, when something major breaks in the house, I can fix it and still have groceries in the pantry, if you know what I mean.

I may defer purchases, choose not to make purchases, but I am not in danger of freezing or starving.  So, I can donate money to the food bank or other charities that help, and I can purchase things to help stock a little free pantry.  For this I am thankful.  

And I am even more thankful that I'm not the only one who does, because it takes more than one or two of us to fill the gap of a program this big.  I was grateful to note that when I delivered my offering to the little free pantry, it was not empty, someone else (maybe more than one someone else) had already put things into it.

One of our regional grocery chains was offering free breakfast to children under 12 this weekend.  

I am hopeful that the courts will stand firm and the SNAP program gets funded.  In the meantime, I am thankful for every single person who adjusts their own lives to help "stand in the breach".


Saturday, November 8, 2025

Thanksgiving season day 27 gratitude - posting late!

 Saturday, November 8, 2025

This morning, I told Facebook that I was grateful for good sleeping weather, and for good neighbors.

The good sleeping weather led to my "sleeping in" clear 'til about 5:50 a.m.  Which is why I'm late posting this blog.  I didn't prepare the night before, and this is the first I've got to my computer!

I'm grateful that Ember is a "big girl" now and doesn't have accidents in the crate unless she's downright ill.

There are LOTS of examples of why I'm grateful for Ember's almost grown up version.  She hasn't torn up my couch since the really bad "oops" bite in the Summer.  She is better about stopping behavior that she "knows better than" when I tell her, "You don't want to get in trouble!"

She's past her car sickness, which makes it so much easier to entertain her... just take her with on my errands!  The "good sleeping weather" ties in with this one, too, because it's not too hot to leave her in the car while I cart the recycles to the big bins at the center, or while I dash into the library to change out books.  The extra mental stimulation of going on human errands with mom helps keep her more ready for the quiet parts of the day, too.


Friday, November 7, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 26 Gratitude

Friday November 7, 2025

Today I am thankful for people who care enough to foster children in need.  Animals in need, too, but today, let me focus on the human children in need.

I am a backup to the back up when it comes to providing transport for a foster child to appointments in the middle of a school day.  Thursday was such a day.  I relished the brief time in the car, conversing with a curious child who seems to accept my role as his foster dad's mom, an extra grandma figure in his life.

Naturally, I did a little grandma spoiling in the process.  I've been on the periphery of this kid's life for a little over a year now, and I just know I will think of him as family forever, no matter the final outcome of the situation.



Thursday, November 6, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 25 gratitude

 Thursday, November 6, 2025

Today I am thankful for my little car, with over 52,000 miles and 13 years old based on model year.  Dexter has served me well during those 13 years, and I anticipate he will for some time to come.  

When I purchased this little car, I said it was my "last car".  I wonder whether in fact it will end up being just that, 'cause he seems to have life left in him, and I'm a little leery of the fancy new "computer surrounded by vehicle" jobs they sell these days.

I am also thankful that I still am able to keep driving, as it's a big part of living independently as we get old-er.

Kind of a corollary to my earlier gratitude for the medical profession, I'm thankful for the cataract surgery and the glaucoma meds that make this independence possible. 


Wednesday, November 5, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 24 gratitude

 

Wednesday November 5, 2024

Today I am thankful for whatever soft, fluffy, gentle comfort thing there is to offer comfort when anniversaries like this one roll around.  Fort Hood families from November 5, 2009, reach out to one another, this is a tough date.

Got a pet?  A loved one in the household?  Hugs and snuggles are good.  Comfort foods?  Allowed.  A drink for a fallen comrade?  Yep!  Whatever it takes to honor and hold on.  And remember to breathe.


Tuesday, November 4, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 23 gratitude

 

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

How have I managed to get to day 23 without already having expressed how thankful I am for my morning coffee, and the technology that lets me brew it one mug at a time?

I'm pretty sure I haven't done so, as I've been prepping my posts the night before and scheduling them to post at 6 a.m. for the most part this season!

Which reminds me, I'm thankful for that feature of blogger that allows me to schedule a post ahead!  I know other bloggers that I read have been doing this right along, but this is my first use of the feature.

Monday, November 3, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 22 Gratitude

 Monday, November 3rd, 2025

Today I am thankful for the pretty fall colors.  The trees are close to their peak of yellows, reds and oranges at this point.

More than just pretty colors, the progress as the season changes remind me of the cycle of renewal.  We fall from a peak, maybe go dormant, to the quiet of Winter, then the promise of Spring.  I am thankful for the years I have had to experience the changes, for knowing about renewal allows us to live in hope.


Sunday, November 2, 2025

Pumpkin wars, Canine edition

 Saturday November 1, 2025

Ember's morning walks are now in pretty chilly weather.  On the plus side, she's getting used to me wearing coats, gloves and stocking caps.

Also on the plus side, this year's Halloween decorations did not freak her out the way they did a year ago when she was a nine-month-old puppy.  Now, at a "grown-up" (almost) 21 months, she's calmer with a lot of the distractions of a neighborhood walk.

However, on November 1st, she spotted a pumpkin about the size of a soccer ball, sitting at the base of a tree, within leash length of the sidewalk (almost).  A squirrel had already gnawed a bite or two out of it, and it had a very attractive handle (stem).

Ember dragged me across the yard to the pumpkinand started an intensive investigation of it.  The garage door of the house we were in front of was opening, and the man of the house was stepping out to his truck in the driveway.  "Help," I said weakly.

Ember picked up the pumpkin by the stem and started to trot in the direction of my house.  She looked proud, but I was still trying to convince her to "drop it" or "leave it".  Too bad, mom, I've got hold of it now, she might have said.  I got no photos of her proud prancing!

The gentleman in question followed us down the block in his truck, and when we got to our own yard and I kind of shoved it away from her, the pumpkin rolled down the driveway and across the street.  The neighbor man stepped down from his truck, retrieved the pumpkin from the gutter where it landed and drove off.

I felt guilty, so I bought the pumpkin pictured above at the grocery store and left it with a note of apology on the porch of the house from which she had swiped it.

Sunday, November 2, 2025

Not wanting to repeat the problem, I avoided that side of the street on Sunday morning's walk.  It was even chillier, leading to a heavier coat.  We walked the other direction around our "normal" neighborhood loop.  We had two episodes related to a dropped treat in the street. Ember laid down and refused to leave the middle of the street, ignoring two dogs who walked by with their human dad, and avoiding an alert lady driving her car, who rolled down her window and asked if we were OK.

Anyway, I managed to convince her to come out of the street and put Mommy on the sidewalk (that's the puppy's job, don't you know?) in time to avoid two more cars driving on that street.  I thought we were going to make it home smoothly when on another side street someone's cat decided to sit and observe us.  Ember, not to be outdone by a cat, treated this one the same way she does The Prisoner.  She sat and watched it.  Cat by garage.  Dog on sidewalk as it crossed the driveway.  Children enter the picture, a couple of doors back the way we had come from.  Laughing and playing.  Dog is now completely ready to stay put.

But I did eventually sing her (and I do mean sing) to the tune of "The Candy Man".  "Put mommy on the sidewalk, that's the puppy's job..."  "The Puppy Dog walk.  We're on the puppy dog walk..."

Whew... onward.  We almost made it home.  We walked down the far side of the street where the pumpkin theft happened on Saturday.  Only I did not spot the pumpkin someone had left at the base of their mailbox, right next to the street.  And fully within leash length of the sidewalk!

"Oh, goody!" thinks Ember.  "Another soccer ball".  She immediately chewed off its stem, so had to put her teeth into its flesh to pick it up.  She rolled it into the gutter, then eventually got it into her mouth and agreed to carry it home.  I often let her carry her prizes home because then I have a better chance of getting them away from her!

This turned out to be the case on this particular morning, too.  We got her into the garage and loaded up into the car, while mom put the pumpkin on top of the car, shut her in, and took the "walk of shame" back up the street 3 houses to put the pumpkin back.  I took this photo after I put it back.  You can see that it's missing its stem!

Anyway... we shall see if tomorrow we can avoid any more pumpkin adventures.  Maybe people will start taking them in?

Life is good.  Spark on!




Thanksgiving season day 21 Gratitude

Sunday, November 2nd, 2025

Today I am thankful for the distraction / entertainment of sporting events.  Saturday night the final game of the World Series of baseball.  College Football and Volleyball, and of course I still follow several friends who are still out there running!  

The magic of television brings all these unifying events into hospital rooms as well as living rooms, so even the family members who are not yet discharged are able to keep an eye on their favorite teams and not be totally "locked" in the mindset of diagnosis and treatment every minute of their stay.  

The family on-line chat allows it to be a shared experience, whether it's the Huskers or the World Series or both interspersed!


Saturday, November 1, 2025

Thanksgiving Season Day 20 Gratitude

Saturday, November 1st, 2025

Today I am thankful for hospitals and doctors and nurses, oh, my!  ER's and ambulances and fancy medical machines.  You don't know how much good these do until you run across the need for them, for yourself or your family or friends!

A couple of weeks back, it was an online friend who had such a need.  This week it was one of my son's in-laws.  But at various times it has been many others, including myself.  I am thankful for those who study these things and offer their services.  So many caring individuals, so much education and practice!  So many different "happenings" in life that require the expertise they offer, from my dog bite in the Summer to heart, lung, or liver issues that need immediate attention followed by changes in lifestyle.

I'm thankful when there are answers and things that we can do to make life more livable!  I thankful that once there was a SparkPeople dot com, and that some of us have remained in contact from that shared interest of doing what we could to live healthier lives.



Season of Thanksgiving gratitude Day 39

 Thursday November 20, 2025 This is another classically easy day of gratitude.  In fact, Alicia (Mamie Allie, not my sister) used this one f...