Tuesday, August 15, 2023

Sunrise and seeing

 

I love the way the tree in my sister's neighbor's yard is in silhouette against the sunrise-tinged clouds.  Photo taken Friday August 11, 2023.

Good news:  I made it through to Saturday morning, and my sister's cats survived her absence.  Ran out of tuna juice exactly on time, Saturday morning.

Sis got home safely, to be greeted by her kitties, later in the morning.

Sunday morning dawned rainy.  We still need it, although my half of the city is down to "moderate" drought, rather than the "severe" it was the week prior.  Something about the way a Summer morning rain smells takes me right back to childhood... how about you?

Surgery morning (Monday) dawned cool.  I wore long pants and a zipper sweatshirt over a t-shirt.  It was a very interesting morning, and they were right on schedule with check in and procedure.  It was like an assembly line precision, and I was awake albeit the eye was drugged to inaction.  Inside my head it was like watching an abstract movie while Dr. S. did his thing.

Afterwards they fed me a cookie and sent me on my way.  My daughter in law was my driver Monday morning, right on time to the minute.  My older sis showed up at my house just as we also arrived, and things went well.  I tried to take a little nap but I was alert and not feeling it.  The nap was like my grandmother's:  5 to 10 minutes.

Here's the eye guard they put on.  I'm the mirror image of the man they were wheeling out as they brought me up to be prepped.  He had his left eye done, I had my right one done.  

Sis cooked me oatmeal, which is my normal breakfast, and that had been delayed by the procedure.  The post-op instructions said I wasn't to cook or drive, but have a "responsible adult" to do these things for me.

Sis and I had a good family catch-up.  We watched the tail end of the last episode of Grantchester (I hadn't finished it, she didn't mind watching it again). It did everything a season finale should, from wrapping up loose ends to setting up the possibility of a next season.  I do hope there will be a next season!

We also watched Jeopardy and did old fashioned fist bumps when one or the other of us got a question right before the contestants did.  We shook our heads and mourned over the Maui wild fire news.  We talked a little bit of spirituality and metaphysics based on her Bible study experiences.

The Prisoner took his time deciding my sis was a "safe" person, but once he did, she was fully accepted to pet the excess hair off.  

My son took over the babysitting when he got off work.  He brought his take-out supper with him.  We chatted about his day, his work, the decisions he and his wife are making about life (which fit in harmoniously with what she had chatted with me in the morning).  Good kids.  Well suited to one another, and they TALK to each other and LISTEN to each other.  Speaks well for their future together.

He set up my TV with his Disney plus account and we watched an episode of The Mandalorian together.  Then I was ready to turn into a pumpkin and did my dental hygiene stuff and put myself to bed.

Observations about living with the eye guard:  makes it harder to blow my nose... kind of like having glasses frames in the way, but not able to be shoved out of the way.  Also makes it a little harder to brush the teeth, as it restricts the movement of the cheek, just a tad.  I was VERY careful changing to my PJ's and again when I got up in the morning.  Then of course there is the whole sleep position thing.

The Prisoner wouldn't come in for me at bedtime, but sometime in the night, he allowed my son to let him in, and proceeded to go meow at him where son was sleeping.

My saint of a son got up in time to deliver me to the eye doctor, where they removed my eye shield.  OMG!  No reprogramming needed.  It's like the world is bright and shiny again.  I could also see all the dirty/dusty bits when I got home.  The spots on the windows, the cat hair everywhere... "is seeing better such a good thing?" asks my lazy/hazy visioned past.

But seriously, my bad eye instantaneously became my good eye and vice versa.  Dr. S. measured my eye pressure, pronounced that the eye looked good, and I'm already scheduled with Dr. J to adjust my glasses prescription in a week.

The shield was sent home with me, along with some tape to use to put it on for overnight for the next week until  I see Dr. J.  We stopped at the HyVee and bought some artificial tears "just in case" it starts to bother me.  Major instruction is the same as others have reported:  don't rub it!

I look a little like I have a black eye, but trying out wearing my old glasses, I see better than I did with the cataract, so I'm sure I'll be able to manage driving to that appointment.

I thought that I had good color vision.  I still think I did, in terms of identifying different subtle shads... BUT, once this surgery was done, it is as though a bright light has been shined on those colors.  I kept saying "Wow.  Oh, wow!  Look at my shoes... they are so shiny!"  "Look at that painting / print on the wall... it's like, three dimensional!"

So, anybody who's been dragging their feet on this one, I'll tell you the same thing that those of you who went before me said:  nothing to fear, and Oh, So, Worth, It!

Another vote to "go for it"!

And Life is Good!  Spark on!






20 comments:

  1. Good to hear the cataract surgery went so well. I remember my brother constantly saying the world was so much brighter than he ever recalled.

    Severe drought state here in Central Texas & water restrictions bumped up from level 1 to level 3 effective today. Our temps have been in the triple digits somewhere around 40 consecutive days so far. Our AC went out at 4 a.m. one day last week -- glad we have a service contract in place that includes service within 24 hours and no trip charge. A major coil is on order and should arrive sometime next week so for now (knock on wood) the added refrigerant is serving us well.

    I've now completed 4 of my 6 weekly treatments for bladder cancer with 2 more to go before redoing labs & exams to see what's next. Yesterday the spouse had markers inserted for guiding radiation treatments which begin the end of this month.

    The furchildren (Maltipoo's KC the Sunshine Dog, 10, and Bailey, 14) are confused at their lack of daily walks due to heat and the closed blinds/curtains due to heat, and the crazy routines juggling both our medical appointments that leave them along too much for their liking.

    Crazy times but this too shall pass.

    PHOENIX1949

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    1. leave them alone, not along. PHOENIX1949

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    2. Poor fur-babies! They really do not understand, but they feel their humans' needs. I'm told by Lacey (DIL) that Carl (the granddog) whined for his daddy/bedmate in the night before finally deciding it was OK to cuddle up with her.

      Prayers for successful outcomes from all those appointments. Sometimes good people get handed heavy burdens. Knowing there are folks who care might just share it a tiny bit... so yes, I cae!

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    3. Shoot! Care! My keyboard must know yours!

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  2. LOLOLOL told you so!
    Seriously, I am glad all went well and you may have felt like you entered a new dimension for a bit. And the cleaning? I was finding dust I'd never noticed before and the speckles on my countertop turned out to not be part of the quartz!
    Back to a bit of reality with all the news, eh?

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    1. You did, and I had not quite believed you. I do have to wonder if all the "pop" is due to how much they dilated that eye, in addition to adding the corrective lens. When that guard came off and I could READ stuff across the room... it was "wow"!

      Now I have to wear the guard to bed for a couple of nights, and go see my regular eye guy next Monday. Things are looking good. I think the regular eye guy might be enough until the next eye has a need, and that could be a couple of years.

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  3. So happy that your surgery went as expected and without incident!!
    Yes, now being able to see dust and cat fur is a dubious reward of cataract removal LOL! Sounds like you got to spend some quality time with family members who rallied to help you out! Take care…Eissa7

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    1. I swear the best "fringe benefit" of having a health event is the family time around it. Getting to sit and listen to my son talk about his work choices this morning? Priceless.

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  4. How different your surgery from mine. Short time of total sedation while the lens were swapped. Eye protector for a week. No restrictions on cooking. Cheap pair of readers until my eyes healed then a new script. Dark glasses outside for the first month post-op. Return for post-op check-up a week later. Different state. Different doc. So happy for you that all went well.
    Driving at night was the big change that I totally appreciated!

    Enjoy the loving care that your family has gifted you. 😎 💞

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    1. Thank you! Fascinating to read of differences in treatment. I suppose it also makes a difference how close or far you live from the facility: I'm ten minutes away, tops. So he wanted to examine how the eye was healing and especially to check my intraocular pressure (because of the glaucoma) next morning. I am able to wear my glasses, which is good because the corrective lens he put in is for distance and I have variable lenses in my glasses, so reading is good too. And since my glasses are photogray, I put them on for the dark glasses part.

      This specialist is handing me back to the optometrist for on-going care, starting next Monday with the vision check for new prescription glasses.

      And you're right, I'm very grateful for the family help, and that I live close enough to them that we CAN step in for one another in times of need.

      Hope you have a wonderful mid-week!

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  5. Beautiful photo!

    Glad that you had just enough tuna juice for your sister’s kitties!

    YES! It was like a psychedelic light show when the laser was being used.

    Yes, the eye protector is pretty big, isn’t it!

    Glad you had such good care post op. And got to catch up w/your sister. Win/win.

    Isn’t that a blessing that your DS and DIL are such good communicators. That makes all the difference in a marriage.

    Sooooooo glad that you had such a great experience post op! Yes, the world is sooooo much brighter and clearer after surgery. Definitely worth having done indeed!

    Heal well.

    Hugs
    Barb
    1crazydog

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    1. Thanks! I was a little scared of putting that eye protector back on for my overnight last night, but that went well, and I figured out that I could sleep on my right side, too... I don't toss and turn a lot, thankfully.

      I'm playing with glasses on or off, depending on what I'm doing.

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  6. I'm so happy for you! You have some good nurses taking care of you there. I'm glad that everything went well for you. Take your time healing.

    Have an amazing day! (((BIG HUGS)))

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    1. Nurses were great... they've all gone back to their lives now, and I'm relaxing back into mine, with a whole lot better sight!

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  7. I have the eye exam in Nov., if the Rx hasn’t changed I’ll inquire about lasik to get rid of the glasses altogether. For a while, anyway, since I don’t think its a one-time/lifetime kinda thing.
    -RunKeeper Dee

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    1. My son looked into Lasik when he was younger and was very curious since they used the lasers in my cataract surgery, too. Different kind of surgery, the lasik. He decided once he began adulting, though, that he would rather spend his money (out of pocket cost was a blockade for him) on other priorities. I love it when people are able to decide what's most important to them.

      And you're right, it's not a once in a lifetime thing, for either Lasik or cataracts. But let me say, I'm glad I got it done... who knows if my lifeline will be long enough to need it again and in the meantime... "wow".

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    2. I get a mental picture of the many videos of deaf babies who get their first hearing aids and how in awe the ones who cant talk yet are. Some get scared and cry, but most are wide eyed and excited to hear the parents’ voices.
      You’re a baby with a new eye😁 I’m sure you’ll wow at even more after the second eye gets done.
      Who knows, the out-of-pocket cost may deter me, too. No harm in inquiring.
      -RunKeeper Dee

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    3. By the time the second one gets done, I might have forgotten the impact of the first one, as the second eye is probably a couple of years out before it will be "ripe enough" for a surgical intervention. Meantime, I keep on taking those eye drops!

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  8. You've been in my thoughts! Glad it went well

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