This photo was taken about 40 minutes before sunrise on Saturday, looking east. The deep purple attracted me.
Back on relatively "normal" Ember time on Saturday. We tried something new, letting her ride along while I took recycles to the center. I didn't load up all the recycles, just part of the corrugated cardboard. But she did great, staying in the car while I took four trips to the bins. Then we went through the pharmacy drive-thru to pick up my eye-drop prescription.
We got out on a leash walk Saturday afternoon, once the hu-mom was convinced the sidewalks around the block were dry. We had some issues at the corner that decides to go home or go into the park. Ember did not want to come home. Mom won, but was not happy about how, and ended up wondering if Ember was scared of something at a couple of the spots where she resisted. Mom, you could do a better job of reading your dog!
Once we did get home, Ember sulkily started in on the leather couch, taking down the baby gate that she had respected all day until then. Late in the day we drove through Scooter's (that's a regional coffee chain). I have got into a rhythm, where she only gets the whipped cream pup cup every third or fourth trip, but I get the hot mocha every time.
I am happy that Ember has found her voice to signal she needs out of the crate for a trip outside. So far, she has not abused this ability to "call" Mommy for help.
On Sunday, I awoke and got up early, to take a shower and prepare for the day. I had ordered groceries for pickup Sunday morning before I went to bed Saturday night. In my mind I was thinking, "socialize the puppy" and take her along, even though pick up time was 9 a.m. when she would normally be napping in her crate.
I played it by ear. We needed a calm down drive in the dark before mommy's own breakfast. Mommy fell asleep with a puppy's head on her lap, and in the end, chickened out and put the puppy in for her nap before going to pick up the groceries. I was kind of glad I did because the weather had started to spit some kind of frozen stuff at us. 40% chance the weather app said. Oh, well, win some, lose some.
Ember, for her part, pawed up a chunk of ice from the splash pad under the downspout on the Northwest corner of the house/garage, and proudly carried it up to play with it on the deck.
Unfortunately, she also discovered the raised dog bed in the family room (next to the leather couch she's still working at deconstructing) has legs and a frame. She thinks these things are appropriate chew-things, so Mommy had to put the dog bed away in the pantry, behind a closed door. Sigh.
On the good news front, the muddy mats I had gradually put down underneath her hot zone towels seem to have converted into hot zones themselves, and she's not chewing on them as much.
I continue to do "practice" runs in the car with Ember, and we did three on Sunday. I feel a bit behind the curve with this form of socialization due to her earlier experience with motion sickness.
None of Sunday's trips involved getting out of the car. The first was just a "calm down" ride. The second was a second trip to the grocery store. I was considering the possibility of running into the grocery store and leaving her in the car while I did, but I judged it as being a bit too busy. The third was to a local high school, where my son and DIL were bringing the foster kiddo and his brother (even though the family has been reunited, they help out with transport for this activity) for basketball practice. We didn't get out of the car, but the boys came over and we rolled down the window so Ember could wag her tail and lick their hands, and they could pet her.
As a reward for being so good waiting in the car, we went to Scooter's drive thru, where she got her puppy biscuit. The weather is getting colder with Monday predicted to be even chillier.
Ember has taken her time with this particular pig's ear. It has taken her four days before finally consuming it! I think the ones that are curled up on the edges invite a little more play time before consumption.
Keep on choosing to live your life! Sparkle onward!
wow, so much to think about with a teenager dog. I had no idea and really love reading about Ember's progress and how things are going. Have a great day!
ReplyDeleteGetting her enough exercise, physical and mental challenges, has to be a priority. But she surprised me this afternoon. I was on the phone with the HVAC folks, who also deliver water softener salt, and went downstairs to check the levels in my tank. Well, that's in the laundry room, where the cat lives, so I had to sneak down.
DeleteEmber followed shortly, and when I cracked open the door, after I had checked, she did not come charging in! She was in a "down" position, alertly looking to me. She let me come out. I praised her for her good choice and gave her an extra good treat!
Sometimes they just warm your heart. Perhaps to make up for the times when they exasperate you!
Yes, it looked the same way here @ 4 am. Well, at least the day started ok w/Ember!
ReplyDeleteWonderful that DS and DIL still help with the former foster child and he and his brother got to see Ember.
Well, hope that today is a good day in Emberville. VERY cold here so just a quick outing (meaning about 2 minutes!) and time to come in.
HUGS and peace LOVE the photos!
Barb
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I am glad, too, that son and DIL are still in FC's life, and the life of his whole birth family, for that matter. FC's birth dad invited them to drop the boys off at their church after the basketball practice, and DIL wrote that the people there were very welcoming of them, and pushed food at them to take home, too.
DeleteHope you and your family (including Miss Lilly) are surviving and staying warm during the cold dark part of the year!
Peace!
Our winter weather has arrived ... 22F low/50'sF high today. Wind, of course, but no fires thankfully.
ReplyDeleteThank goodness you can take Miss Ember for car rides to calm down now ...
I would welcome a 22F low and 50's high! Today (Monday) I don't think we got up to freezing, and we started at 7F. That's +7, at least, not -7!
DeleteWe took three car rides on Monday, too, and I'm starting to make plans with a neighbor to see if we can try to parallel leash walk our two dogs. I'm hoping having a "mentor" older dog will help her stay the course of the walk. Of course this will all depend on whether Frank (the other dog) and Ember are ready to accept this kind of arrangement.
Yes, we rarely get below the teens here. However, our cold comes with wind all winter. And our summers are very hot and dry, some summers hotter than others with sun strong enough that I walk at 5:30 or 6am to avoid sunburn. Even with it being winter, we are still in fire season. Our Montana cousins laugh at our winters. We laugh at their summers. I suppose it's a matter of acclimation no matter where one lives.
DeleteTotally agree... it's whatever we're used to.
DeleteWith the purple shadows, the photo takes on a Halloween vibe.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice that DS and DIL maintain contact with the foster fellow.
We have a Scooter's coffee here. It's DGD's favorite. We make at least one visit when she comes for a visit.
Stay warm. Stay safe. 🤗💖
I didn't know how far the Scooter's chain ranged. I'd seen it here, of course, and at the airport in Omaha. These littler brands spread out. Glad you have one nearby and that it's something you can enjoy with your DGD.
DeleteStay safe and warm wishes to you as well!
That sounds like a lovely weekend with Ember! It's great that she's getting used to car rides and exploring the world, even if it's just from the window.
ReplyDeleteIt's understandable that she's still working on her leash manners and impulse control. You're doing a great job with her socialization and training.
I hope you have a wonderful week! (((BIG HUGS)))
Hope your week is a good one, too! (( hugs ))
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