Sunday, January 5, 2025

Meanwhile across town

The accelerated reunification of foster kiddo with his birth dad and siblings started Friday afternoon, but it's not fully signed off on.  Still son and DIL went to bed Friday night without kiddo in residence, and with the anticipation that this particular fostering has come to an end.  Great kid.  Hopefully they will still be in his life, but it's not the same as having him living at their house.  Prayers for the many times foster parents say "good-bye" to kiddos not fully grown and are mandated to "let go".  If all goes well in the next few days, the little guy will be at his dad's place for good.

My son and his wife have a date night planned for Saturday night, to console one another about this parting.  They are going early, the 4 p.m. early bird thing, to avoid the coming snow as much as they can.  

Ember sends her best wishes to them, offering up her plastic stick.

As of 5 p.m. on Saturday, Ember was quiet in her crate, the last "nap" before "last call".  We had a good day.  A few new toys were rolled out, and I actually saw her get excited about indoor interactive play.  We played some fetch, we played some tug, and we had some good instances of the "thank you" tug release, followed by a sit to ask for the resumption of the game.  For all the frustrating days (like Friday), there are good days (like Saturday) where "hope springs eternal".

We had quiet couch time before crate time three times Saturday.  It's our new thing.  It helps grow her willingness to crate up afterward.  It solidifies our mutual trust.

New favorite tug toy, I've been calling "black sheep" to her.  We now have four furry (faux furry, that is) tug toys.  I determined that she likes the furry feel in her mouth better than the fleecy feel.  Also better than a ball.  She likes the plastic/rubber balls better than the fuzzy tennis balls... it takes time and experience to determine what gives your specific dog joy and thus makes the better reward for them.

Sunday morning... what will we find?

I woke at 3 and heard the wind howling.  Successfully fell back asleep until after 4:30 am.  The phone app says it's going to start snowing again at 6:08 am.  How very specific!  It did not, exactly, so, there's that for specific predictions.

During "last call" Saturday night, we had about half an inch of snow on the ground, and it was lightly falling.  Ember put on an impressive display of zoomies.  Then she played begged me for a bit of tug before quietly chewing on a bone before bedtime.

The deck did not look much different from what it did at last call Saturday evening.  Ember zoomed some, but also did her morning business, then we went inside.  We did not do any outdoor ball chasing Sunday morning, but we did go out and "check on" the snow on the deck, several times.

Played several tug games, some hide and go seek, and a few rounds of crate games.  Eventually we settled down to be a couch puppy while the human fixed her own breakfast.  Ember consented to nap in the crate after.  I told Ember I was going outside to see if I could find her poo, and she settled in just fine while I did so.

The snow is not up to the predicted amount, but the Winter storm warning lasts until midnight, so we'll see how short of that we are.  They have lowered the prediction to 1 - 5 inches for our fair city.  We've already got about an inch.  This can be handled.  It's a light fluffy snow.  My DIL reported slick streets after their dinner date.

Wishing all who stop by the best of Sunday... may you be safe, warm and dry!

Choose to live your life!  Spark on.




6 comments:

  1. OH it is so hard to say good bye! I hope all goes well for that young man. HUGS to DS and DIL.

    Awwww Ember . . . you are a sweetie to offer up your plastic stick. Glad it was a good day in Emberville!

    Expecting snow tonight to tomorrow, but not sure exactly how much. Well, they never get it right anyhow, so ok then! Gonna be what it will be. Ready as can be.

    Hugs and stay warm.

    Barb
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  2. LOL... "they never get it right anyhow". They said 4 - 8 inches, then they said 1 -5 inches... I'm thinking between 1 and 2 is what we've got so far. About 3 1/2 hours of "40-60%" chance of snow and the warning is in effect for another 10 1/2 hours. I have shoveled the sidewalk and part of the driveway, and my Reynaud's syndrome kicked in to make my fingers pretty frozen up, but I know enough to come inside and thaw out. Ember is looking at me from her crate with those begging puppy eyes, so guess I'll make sure things are secure and take pity on her.

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  3. It is funny how dogs are like people in preferring particular sensory experiences. Thor, our brown male terrier-mutt especially enjoys toys which make little crinkle sounds as he nibbles them. His preferred toys last until they get too scroungy and the kids sneak them into the trash. Roxey, who is our shepherd-terrier-mutt, loves toys with squeakers and pretty much kills toys. Chews off any appendages, gives them the prey-death shake, rips out all the stuffing. Her toys do not last long.

    Happy Sunday.

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    1. It is so true. And their tastes / preferences can change as they grow up, too. Ember still loves to dig (showed in her first week here), and was digging in the snow today. She didn't start removing squeakers until she hit about 10 months. Nowadays her toy preference varies by the day, in terms of what class of toy: tug, toss, or chew. And when she chews on a plush toy? It does not last long at all.

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  4. It must be very quiet at son's home today. I hope they find comfort for all the emotional support they were able to provide for the little guy while in their care. It's surprising how much of that support goes with the kids when they leave. He may forget the events that happened while he was there. He will internalize the positive feeling and always have those with him.

    Looks like the first prediction of 6"-10" will be the closer to accurate. Blizzard warnings were posted earlier. The high wind and blowing snow will make for deep drifts. Nothing moves. A snow plow went by hours ago. It's almost a total whiteout. All schools, businesses, plus local and federal offices are closed tomorrow.

    Praying for sunshine and warmer days. Stay safe. Stay warm.
    🤗💖

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    1. We didn't get anywhere near the 4 - 8 original prediction (at least so far we haven't). The kids are providing transport for foster kiddo and his brother to a basketball clinic this evening, so they actually have a chance to see for themselves that he's doing OK. Yay!

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