The crazy thing is if I went through how Monday unfolded, could I even get it in the right chronological order? I'm not sure.
Let's start with early morning. I let the Prisoner in before I got Ember up and out, then fed. We played glow in the dark retrieve. We played with the Tearrible toy. We played tug. All the usual stuff. Before 6:30 a.m., though, I got a message from my daughter in law that she had tested positive for Covid. Yikes!
That kind of set the tone for the day. During Ember's puppy nap #1, I looked up the expiration dates on the Covid tests I have on hand. Three of them are about to expire, and three tests negative on days 1, 3, and 5 after exposure should ensure you don't have the thing. So I took a test. Granted, I only saw DIL and son through the car window on the opposite side while everyone was fussing over Ember Sunday, but if they are going to expire anyway...
Negative!
Anyway, took Ember on a practice car ride and picked her up some treats and a new toy between puppy naps. When I took a bathroom break and did not contain her, she bit through my internet wire! Yikes!
I managed to call the Internet company, and they looked up my account and said I was on the list of folks who were eligible for same day service calls. They had a guy out here within the hour. He not only replaced the wire, he also replaced the wireless router. And there is joy in the web again.
Ember had to cool her heels in the crate while the technician worked, but for the most part, she was clueless as to having done anything wrong.
Got her up for her "follow the leader" walk with Frank and his hu-mom Susan. Frank is a little touchy about energetic Ember, and kind of snapped at her a couple of spots in the walk. She balked on the last leg (like she does) on the way back. Susan slipped me a note with the name of an e-collar company on it. This is one of those "the levels", the sound, the vibration, and at the highest level the shock. She used it to help Frank over his pulling at the leash. My heart sank at the very thought of putting such a thing on Ember. Susan said she never had to use the shock, the vibrate seemed to be enough to remind Frank of her expectations.
Carl has such a collar, too. I only ever put it on him once, and never used more than the jiggly vibration, either. Mostly I have not used it with him at all. The very suggestion that I might have to put on his "bark collar" (his particular issue was his barking) was usually enough to remind Carl that Grandma likes a quiet puppy.
Anyway, I sulked a bit internally over the very suggestion but eventually came to peace. Just 'cause someone suggests something doesn't mean you are obligated to do it.
Simultaneous to the internet drama and the co-dog walk, the fur was flying (figuratively) across town. Remember the foster grandchild? Yep. He, his older brother, and his younger sister were removed from their birth dad's home again. Son and DIL have their little one back since after school, and Carl and the birds were rejoicing!
My heart goes out to these kids and their being kind of yo-yo'd around by the system! Thankfully, my son and DIL had kept his space and special things safely there for "respite" times he might visit, so he should feel loved and cherished tonight. He's only been back with birth dad for less than a month full time, with a couple of weekend overnight stays before that.
Lots of last-minute arrangements for transport (the other foster grandparents are stepping up for school transport tomorrow) and some shopping because when they remove these kids they come with a bare minimum of "stuff". DIL sent videos to the private group of the reunion time. They will have him until the next court thing changes something. Praying for children in such situations!
To top off the day, got a text message from the trainer, who has been ill today, and is waving off tomorrow's training sessions with me and a couple of other ladies. After today, I'm totally OK with that. Ember will go to daycare, anyway, and I'll work on housecleaning.
Choose when you have a choice. Find a way to choose your attitude if you can't choose anything else. Choose to LIVE your life. And Spark on.
ALICIA363
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers all around. Housecleaning and rest sounds like a fine way to spend today ❤️
Thanks! Can always use those prayers, can't we?
DeleteI double checked to see that all the goings on was just one day. Lots to cover and so glad to hear that the foster boy can have a stable place to go. It is really hard on kids when things get bad in their homes. I will keep those children in my prayers too. And hopefully you stay negative with those covid tests. Have a peaceful Tuesday.
ReplyDeleteLOL! Yes, that was all in one day! Tuesday morning here, now, and Ember is at daycare, but she wasn't so sure about getting in the car this morning. I had to play "hide and seek" to get her in! Now I'm checking comments and doing my usual doggie day care cleaning!
DeleteOH so sorry to hear your DIL now has COVID. Sending healing thoughts. Glad YOU’RE negative.
ReplyDeleteOMG! EMBER! Glad that could be fixed quickly. *SIGH* NOT good, Ember! But . . . I’m in your camp. That e-collar was suggested for Miss Lilly long ago and far away! NOPE didn’t get it and she’s good w/the harness now. Have to remember, you know Ember best and are working w/her. And yes, only a suggestion that you can take . . . OR leave.
Sooooooo sorry to hear about the removal of foster kid, brother and sister from bio home. That’s what I saw a LOT of when we were considering foster to adopt. I just broke our hearts too much to see them yo-yo’d around. BUT glad DS and DIL have him again. *SIGH* It is so hard to watch the system grind away @ these kids. *SIGH* BUT you DS and DIL are providing the kind of environment foster son needs. Absolutely a TON of prayers for all those kiddos.
Especially if there is addiction involved in the mix, it can be a total roller coaster. Very sad.
Glad Ember had daycare today!
HUGS and hope today is a better day all ‘round. AND healthy thoughts coming your way!
Barb
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Had a phone call from son on his way home from work Monday, just to allow him to vent his frustration with the system so that when he got home he could focus on "being dad". The videos DIL shared of FC and Carl, and FC and my son playing video games on the couch together, and FC and herself cooking supper together... priceless. They don't know how long they will have him, and meanwhile my heart aches for his brother and sister who ended up in a center overnight last night, since they did not find them a safe home placement yet. Clearly my son and his wife are not equipped to take all three of them. They are only licensed for two, same-sex kids, and they will play only within the rules. Had they been asked to take the two boys they might have tried that on a respite basis at least, but that was not the ask.
DeleteI don't have all the details as to why the removal, and don't need to have them. But the reports of the little guy feeling safe going to school this morning were heartening. I do hope he has a better school day today.
Court hearings about these three children's future likely to happen this week, and I pray for wisdom for those who have to make decisions!
PHOENIX1949
ReplyDeleteWhat a Monday !!!!!! Whew - hope today is calm and restful and you remain negative, Covid-wise, not otherwise.
Susan, Central Texas
LOL... funny about how "negative" is good news for Covid, but certainly not for attitude! Trying to stay hopeful as well as healthy. Tuesday... onward!
DeleteThank goodness you tested negative for Covid again ... that would be 'just that one more thing' in a few days of things. :o
ReplyDeleteNo kidding! Fingers crossed. I tested Monday, will test again today (Wednesday), once again waiting for puppy nap #1 to do so.
DeleteA blessing that DS and DIL are there for the little guy. So very sad.
ReplyDeleteA blessing for one little guy, but sharp contrast that his brother and sister did not have a soft place to land that first night.
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